"Hey, I wanted to talk to you about something that's been on my mind. I've really been enjoying getting to know your family, especially your mom. She's incredibly kind and has this elegance about her that I find really captivating. Sometimes, I catch myself feeling a bit amazed by the difference in how refined she is compared to you. I know that might sound weird, but I think it's because her poise and warmth are qualities that I deeply admire. I feel like I'm learning a lot from her about what makes someone truly special. I hope you don't mind me saying this, but I think she's someone really unique, and I feel lucky to have her in our lives."
: If proximity to her mother is a challenge, think about creating some space or adjusting time spent together until you can manage your feelings responsibly. "Hey, I wanted to talk to you about